Whether you allowed the behavior or you create the behavior, either way, you hold a part in each situation. It may be difficult to see, but the fact is, we all play a role in every situation we are in.
Let’s take for an example, you are a student. You pay attention to the teacher, you take good notes, you ask questions, study at home, the reflection of your role is a good grade.
Let’s look at it from another point of view. You pay attention but just don’t get it, you try and then give up, you don't ask the question and there is classroom help available, but you don’t take it. When the test comes the reflection of your role is not the grade you think you deserve.
Whether good or bad this is the role you chose to play now you have to own it.
Every morning you can choice your role. It’s never too late to change roles. It is never too late to make a better choice. It is never too late to be a better than you were yesterday.
One moment at a time, one day at a time.
You got this!
Namaste my friends